Never Let A Man Take You To A Height Where You Can’t Stand A Alone – Girl , Advises Girls

Never Let A Man Take You To A Height Where You Can’t Stand A Alone – Girl , Advises Girls

In an age where material benefit drives the younger generation to unimaginable limits, A Facebook User has an Advice for her Fellow Ladies who solely Depend on men for their upkeep.

In the advice which she gave through her facebook , she opined that over-dependence on man is One of the key Sources of Prostitution .

Below is the Full text of her facebook post;

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I cannot advise a girl not to depend on a guy for her upkeep and financial sustenance. I’ll rather not air my opinion on that.

Permit me to simply imagine the way stories like that go;

So He buys you a car and fuels it every week , Rents a serviced apartment for you in Lekki and pays a whopping #150,000 monthly service charge, he bought you an iPhone, takes care of your data subscription and recharges your line regularly.

Brazilian hair, makeup, and other slaying instruments are never lacking because he is a great provider.

But one day, he decides that he is “not doing again”. He has found another apple of his eyes as his former apple is now overused.

He cuts you off.

Quick question;

How do you maintain that life after the source is gone? Get another source, I guess.

And if that doesn’t happen again? You become desperate. Your pride sets in. It wouldn’t let you retrace your steps.
You swear never to go back to a place of lack.

You HUSTLE, in the negative sense of the word.

That’s how a lot of girls go into full-time prostitution.

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Here is my advice;

Get a job, Live according to your means. Enjoy your life and have fun. If a man likes you and wants to spend on you, that’s fine.

But never let a man take you to a height where you can’t stand without him. Instead, make an investment of his gifting.

Eternal dependency should never turn you on.
Self-sufficiency should be the goal.